(It should be noted that SOME of these tips cover both sexes)
Compliment your date. This goes for both men and women, but men sometimes find this harder to do, especially on the first date. Be sincere, stay away from body parts below the neck and above the ankles. Things to praise:
Hair – Women spend a lot of time on their hair and they like when a man notices.
Eyes – This is a big one. Women like when a man looks them in the eyes and what an opportunity to tell them they have beautiful eyes.
Smile or Teeth – Every woman likes to hear that they have a warm, beautiful smile or beautiful white teeth. Be sure you smile when telling the women, this helps create a positive vibe.
Be positive and energetic. Show your personality by having FUN. Do not be uptight. Women are attracted to men that are able to make them laugh.
Do not be afraid to admit that you are NOT perfect. It is okay to ask women for their help in deciding where to meet. Or ask their opinion about any topic. Do NOT be argumentative. Every woman likes a good communicator and by asking them for their help or opinion encourages good honest communication.
Listen Listen Listen – Here again women like when a man listens. Get to know her by listening to what she is saying. Be sincere and engage conversation when ever possible, but be a good listener first.
Offer options for the first date. These can include the day, time, activity and transportation. This shows you are flexible and considerate. Also this is a great conversation started.
Be honest and open. If you had a great time on the date, tell her and ask for a second date. Many times the women will wait for the man to ask her out on the second date.
On the other hand if you have no interest in a second date, explain that as well in a friendly manner. This will save you both time and allow time for dating others.
Treat the dating experience as FUN and EXCITING. Remember you do not have to MARRY the first person you date.
Foods to avoid on First Date. This applies to both sexes and is just FUNNY but so True.
Garlic Corn on the Cob Popcorn
Fried Chicken Whole Lobster (no bib) Broccoli
Remember, you and your date are here for the same reason. Have FUN, be Considerate, Maintain Positive, Open Communication.
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